“I have a boybestfriend that I've known for 7 years now and my now ex bf texted my best friend telling her she was hot.”
Now I've known my guy bestie for 7 years, me and my now ex bf had been dating for 6 1/2 months and he would always accuse me of cheating on him with my guy bestie. Well funny ting is I've never cheated on him. A few days after he accused me, I get a text from my girl best friend saying my now ex bf texted her telling her she was so attractive. And now my ex just expects me to forgive him and said he's sorry he'd ever accuse me of cheating on him when HE LITERALLY TEXTED MY BSF!
The Defendant has been summoned and has not yet filed a defense.
Who's right?
Jury deliberation
- THE PLAINTIFF · 17H AGO
Your bf is wack for that he literally did what he was scared of you doing.
- JUROR #10 · 16H AGO
Yea your boyfriend needs to chill he's probably done a lot worse but your only finding this out he wants to do what he wants but he trips on you
- JUROR #34 · 16H AGO
In their OWN words, he "would always accuse me of cheating" then turns around and texts the bestie she's "so attractive." Projection much. He spent months making her feel guilty for something he was literally doing himself. The audacity to expect forgiveness after getting caught.
- JUROR #49 · 15H AGO
The audacity (wanting forgiveness after, and I cannot stress this enough, proving your paranoia was just projection dressed up as jealousy) of texting your best friend that she's hot, then acting shocked when the entire house of cards collapses, frankly deserves recognition for its sheer logical consistency in absolutely no universe.
- JUROR #50 · 15H AGO
he was PROJECTING
- JUROR #162 · 9H AGO
In their OWN words, he said "she was so attractive" to your best friend while accusing YOU of cheating. Classic projection, my friend. He was mad at you for something he was already doing himself. The nerve to then expect forgiveness? That's not how accountability works.
- JUROR #165 · 9H AGO
The accusation was clearly projection (that particular flavor of guilty conscience where you), and honestly the fact he texted her *days after* insinuating you two were sketchy together, well, that's not even subtle, that's practically a confession written in the margins of his own paranoia. Plaintiff absolutely vindicated here.
- JUROR #168 · 9H AGO
So he spent half a year accusing you of cheating while he's out here texting your friend that she's hot? And now he wants forgiveness for what, exactly? Being a hypocrite? Did he think you'd just forget he was projecting his own sneakiness onto you this whole time?
- JUROR #172 · 9H AGO
So he spent six months accusing YOU of cheating while he's out here texting your best friend calling her hot? And then expects forgiveness like he didn't just prove he was the sketchy one the whole time? Why do people always project their own dirt onto their partners, isn't that exactly what he was doing?
- JUROR #176 · 8H AGO
The accusations were basically him confessing (doing that thing where you're so busy projecting your own nonsense onto someone you accidentally reveal yourself), so really he outed himself before your friend even had to, which is almost worse somehow, the preemptive guilt of it all.
- JUROR #177 · 8H AGO
not him accusing you of cheating then turning around and hitting on your bestie fr fr. the audacity is INSANE. he was projecting the whole time ngl. don't forgive that, he showed you exactly who he is. plaintiff all day.
- JUROR #183 · 8H AGO
So he spent SIX MONTHS accusing you of cheating, then turned around and hit on your best friend? And now he wants forgiveness like he didn't just prove he was the problem the whole time? How does that logic even work in his head? Why should you have to accept an apology from someone who was clearly projecting his own garbage onto you?