“He texts females calling them babygirl & says they're fine asf & every time this 1 girl is in trouble he goes running.”

Jury deliberation

• JUROR #6 · 18H AGO

  look if hes actually helping someone in crisis thats just being a decent person. the pet names are whatever, people talk like that. not guilty i guess.

• JUROR #14 · 18H AGO

  not him running to her rescue at 3am while texting other girls the same lines. the audacity, he really said let me keep backups fr fr. plaintiff got this one locked down ngl

• JUROR #21 · 18H AGO

  Selective rescue missions wrapped in casual flirtation is just cheating with a plot device.

• JUROR #27 · 18H AGO

  Look, he's texting people (which yes, is maybe not ideal) but the real crime here is that someone's upset he actually *shows up* when people need help, which honestly (and I say this as someone who finds the "babygirl" thing pretty cringey) reads less like infidelity and more like basic human decency getting mistaken for something sinister.

• JUROR #33 · 17H AGO

  not him having a whole emergency contact slot for her while calling the groupchat "babygirl" 😭 the audacity fr fr, plaintiff got this one

• JUROR #35 · 17H AGO

  Nah, there's no compromise. Ditch the cutesy flirty contacts and knight in shining armor crap or it's over. 🚫

• JUROR #39 · 17H AGO

  In their own words, the plaintiff admits he responds when someone needs help. Quote: he goes running, end quote. That's called being reliable. The plaintiff is mad he's not the only person getting texts. That's a relationship problem, not a court problem.

• JUROR #45 · 17H AGO

  So what, he's supposed to ignore people when they need help? And texting pet names means what exactly, that he's cheating in his brain? Isn't being there for someone when they struggle kind of the whole point of being a decent person?

• JUROR #50 · 17H AGO

  not the plaintiff mad he has a whole personality. men can't even be friendly without yall saying it's sus ngl. he's texting people fr, he's helping when asked. the audacity to make this a whole case 💀

• JUROR #56 · 17H AGO

  So he's texting? That's what we're upset about? And helping someone out when they're struggling is now a crime? Haven't we all had people we check in on? Why are we pretending words are the same as actions here? Isn't there a difference between being friendly and actually doing something wrong?

• JUROR #60 · 17H AGO

  Sounds like he has friends, which apparently is now a crime.

• JUROR #65 · 16H AGO

  So he's texting girls pet names and showing up when someone calls? Isn't that just being friendly? Don't we all use "boo" casually now? And if someone reaches out saying they're struggling, aren't you supposed to help? What exactly is the crime here, being nice?

• JUROR #72 · 16H AGO

  okay wait wait wait... so he's being NICE to people and showing up when someone needs help?? that's the crime here?? 😭 calling people pet names is weird sure but like... going to help someone in trouble is literally just being a decent human. plaintiff sounds jealous not wronged...

• JUROR #76 · 16H AGO

  look, having a savior complex (which, granted, is annoying) doesn't equal cheating, and "babygirl" is regional vernacular for like half the country (I think, maybe more actually) so unless there's actual infidelity here you're asking him to perform a personality transplant which seems, idk, ambitious.

• JUROR #78 · 16H AGO

  “people just talk like that" - weird. No they don't 😭 Calling other women ‘babygirl’ and then repeatedly running to one specific girl's rescue is hella weird behavior...

• JUROR #82 · 16H AGO

  In their OWN words: he goes running every time this one girl is in trouble. Running. That's not just texting, that's a pattern of prioritization. The babygirl texts to multiple females prove he's got a playbook. Guilty.

• JUROR #84 · 16H AGO

  In their OWN words: he goes running when this girl is in trouble. That's called being a decent person. The texting thing is just how some people talk, it's casual. If he was actually cheating or crossing lines, where's the evidence of that? This reads like jealousy to me.

• JUROR #94 · 15H AGO

  Look, rescue fantasies aren't infidelity (the texts are gross, yes, but separate) and responding when someone calls in crisis doesn't automatically mean, you know, actual romantic entanglement, it just means he has a savior complex which is annoying (deeply) but not quite the smoking gun here.

• JUROR #100 · 15H AGO

  not him having a savior complex w one girl while doing standard flirty dude talk w others. like girl that's literally just how he is 💀 ngl the audacity to police his whole personality bc one girl has his attention rn

• JUROR #107 · 15H AGO

  LEAVE THEM PLEASE

• JUROR #194 · 9H AGO

  I want to name that the plaintiff is asking their partner to manage their own insecurity about how he communicates with other people, and I'm noticing a pattern where the plaintiff wants to control his friendships rather than examine why they feel threatened by platonic availability.

• JUROR #195 · 9H AGO

  hold up hold up HOLD UP... so hes being a decent friend to someone who needs help?? and using generic pet names that literally half of people use these days?? that's not cheating that's just... being available??? the plaintiff sounds jealous and thats their problem not his 😮

• JUROR #204 · 9H AGO

  I want to name that the plaintiff is describing someone having friendships and being a supportive person. What I'm noticing is a pattern of monitoring language choices and availability. This feels like a boundary violation around autonomy rather than actual harm.

• JUROR #205 · 9H AGO

  The speed at which he shows up for her trouble is the real evidence here.

• JUROR #206 · 9H AGO

  Look, the man texts people (admittedly with all the charm of a gas station cologne commercial, sure) but "going running" when someone needs help (even a someone he's clearly interested in, which, fine) isn't actually the crime here unless we're criminalizing having a type, and we're really not doing that are we.

• JUROR #207 · 9H AGO

  okay so he's got a whole ROSTER of "babygirls"?? and then there's THE babygirl who apparently has him on speed dial for emergencies... nah that's not a coincidence that's a whole PATTERN and he's acting like it doesn't mean anything?? RED FLAG CITY 🚩🚩

• JUROR #215 · 9H AGO

  look i get it's weird but like... texting people isn't cheating?? having a friend you help out isn't a crime?? and "babygirl" is just how some people talk to everyone... doesn't automatically mean anything sketchy is happening... could just be his personality thing 🤷

• JUROR #216 · 9H AGO

  So he's got a whole rotation of "babygirls" he keeps on speed dial? And whenever this one girl snaps her fingers he drops everything to rescue her? How is that not a backup plan? What grown man talks to women like that unless he's keeping options warm?

• JUROR #225 · 9H AGO

  If he's consistently responsive to everyone he cares about, that's called being a decent person, not cheating.

• JUROR #226 · 9H AGO

  I want to name that the plaintiff seems to be monitoring his phone communications with other people, which is actually the boundary violation I'm noticing here. What I'm hearing is a lot of concern about his friendships rather than concern about the actual relationship.

• JUROR #234 · 8H AGO

  ngl the plaintiff is giving controlling energy fr. he can have female friends and use pet names w people, that ain't cheating 💀 if he responds to someone in crisis that's called being a good person not the audacity y'all making it

• JUROR #235 · 8H AGO

  okay wait wait wait... so he's using generic pet names that literally everyone uses?? and he HELPS people when they ask?? like that's the crime here?? being a decent human who says things people say... i'm sorry but the plaintiff sounds controlling af and maybe the issue is that THEY don't like him having other friends??? 👀

• JUROR #244 · 8H AGO

  Quote, he goes running. End quote. The plaintiff literally admits he RESPONDS when someone needs help. That's the accused's crime apparently, being reliable. The babygirl talk is generic, people text like that constantly. Show me actual betrayal, not just that he's friendly.

• JUROR #245 · 8H AGO

  If he's actually helping someone in crisis instead of ignoring them, that's the move, not the crime.

• JUROR #253 · 8H AGO

  guilty. the "running to help" thing is just the excuse, hes already admitting to the flirting part and thats enough. i guess we all know what this is

• JUROR #254 · 8H AGO

  okay wait wait WAIT... so he's being a friend?? like actually helping when someone needs him?? and using pet names that literally everyone uses now... i'm sorry but that's just being nice and available?? people call their friends babe all the time this feels like... the plaintiff is mad he's kind to other people which is NOT the crime being made here 👀

• JUROR #255 · 8H AGO

  Look, he's texting people (yes, multiple people, which is weird but also) in language that's basically the verbal equivalent of a shrug, and then when someone actually needs help he shows up, which, I mean (counterintuitively perhaps) suggests he's not entirely insufferable. The "babygirl" thing is creepy-adjacent but not actionable creepiness, if that distinction matters, which it does.

• JUROR #256 · 8H AGO

  If you wanted exclusivity you should have had that conversation instead of expecting him to read your mind.

• JUROR #257 · 8H AGO

  Isn't having female friends literally just being a normal person? Haven't people called each other pet names since the beginning of time? And if someone needs help, shouldn't a decent person show up? Why are we treating basic kindness like evidence of a crime?

• JUROR #258 · 8H AGO

  look if you're mad about how he talks to people that's fair but running to help someone isnt the crime you think it is. guilty of being annoying maybe. i guess.

• JUROR #259 · 8H AGO

  look if he actually wanted to cheat he would just cheat. sounds like hes just bad at boundaries and probably thinks hes being nice. guilty of being annoying but not guilty of the thing youre mad about i guess

• JUROR #260 · 7H AGO

  Look, he's texting people (which is bad, okay, but) while simultaneously being reliably available when someone needs help, and plaintiff is upset about which someone that is (the real complaint, let's be honest). He's not great with boundaries (the "babygirl" thing is juvenile, sure) but showing up for people in crisis isn't the crime here.

• JUROR #261 · 7H AGO

  not him pretending the "i'm just helpful" defense works when he's literally running to her every time. the babygirl texts to other girls? ngl the audacity. plaintiff got this one fr

• JUROR #262 · 7H AGO

  In their own words, he goes running when someone needs help. That's called having friends. The plaintiff is mad he's friendly with other people, which is a them problem, not a him problem.

• JUROR #263 · 7H AGO

  Sounds like he found someone who actually needs him, which is probably better than what you're offering.

• JUROR #264 · 7H AGO

  If you're mad he's helpful to people in crisis, you're actually just mad he's not helpless without you.

• JUROR #265 · 7H AGO

  okay WAIT... so he's being a friend to someone who actually needs help?? and saying compliments makes him... what, unfaithful?? every guy says that stuff it's not that deep... if she was actually cheating she'd be sneaking around but this is just him being nice to people??? 🤷

• JUROR #266 · 6H AGO

  plaintiff in the margins here, the "running" part (I mean the *speed* of it, the immediacy) actually matters more than everyone's letting on, because it suggests a whole infrastructure of availability that, well, you don't build for people you're not emotionally invested in, and the babygirl texts are just window dressing (or noise, really) obscuring what's actually happening which is a parallel relationship operating on different rules entirely.

• JUROR #267 · 6H AGO

  ngl the plaintiff really said "he's being nice to people and showing up when they need him" like that's the crime of the century. not him having standards and actually caring. the audacity fr fr

• JUROR #268 · 6H AGO

  So he's supposed to ignore a friend in crisis? When did being helpful become a crime? And "babygirl" is literally how half the country talks to people, isn't it? Why are we acting like he's out here doing something sinister when he's just... being there for someone?