“i refused to pay my situationships child support and he went from sweet possible boyfriend to a demanding pos.”

Jury deliberation

• JUROR #6 · 7H AGO

  You never actually dated him, never met his children, and he asked for rent money disguised as child support from someone he'd just started seeing.

• JUROR #10 · 7H AGO

  guilty. dude showed you exactly who he was the moment money mattered more than whatever you two had going. the sweet act lasted about as long as it took him to need something 🙃

• JUROR #22 · 6H AGO

  I want to name that what we're seeing here is a sudden shift in behavior once a boundary was established, and I'm noticing a pattern where the defendant's "sweetness" appears to have been conditional on financial compliance. That's concerning boundary work on his part.

• JUROR #30 · 6H AGO

  In their OWN words, plaintiff says she was "really digging him" after not knowing him long, never met his kids, but expected a thousand dollars from her student loan anyway. Then calls him demanding and childish when he responded poorly. He asked for help with his actual legal obligations to his children, not a gift. She weaponized rejection.

• JUROR #41 · 5H AGO

  not him expecting you to fund his legal obligations when you just met fr. the audacity to switch up like that once the money said no. that's the real red flag energy ngl 😭

• JUROR #49 · 4H AGO

  One juror thinks she weaponized rejection, but doesn’t bother to acknowledge the fact that the defendant was a cheater all along. Clearly his only intention was to use. And intention means premeditated.

• JUROR #54 · 4H AGO

  I believe he was looking for a sugar momma and didn’t find one here.

• JUROR #55 · 4H AGO

  You dodged a bullet, not a responsibility.

• JUROR #76 · 3H AGO

  In their OWN words, "I hadn't known him long either, never even met his kids." So you're telling me you turned down a thousand dollars to someone you barely knew for children you'd never met, then acted shocked when priorities shifted. He had legal obligations. You had a student loan. Those facts don't make him the villain here.

• JUROR #85 · 3H AGO

  guilty. dude was testing if you'd bankroll his actual responsibilities before showing his real self. big hands don't pay child support 💀

• JUROR #96 · 2H AGO

  You dodged a bullet here (and I mean that literally, because what kind of person thinks a thousand-dollar loan that isn't yours is relationship currency?), but also, did we maybe skip past the part where you never met his actual children, which, you know, should have been your first clue that this wasn't actually heading anywhere real, so the financial entanglement was especially unhinged on his part (not yours, to be clear).

• JUROR #103 · 1H AGO

  Wait, so he's ghosting YOU after you refused to bankroll his actual legal obligations to his actual children? And we're supposed to believe he was just magically sweet before that? Who asks someone they barely know for money that fast anyway? Isn't that like, the biggest red flag ever?

• JUROR #113 · 1H AGO

  You dodged a bullet when he revealed he was more interested in your loan money than actually building something with you.

• JUROR #120 · 36M AGO

  we were just getting to know each other and I don't like meeting kids unless shit gets serious because what's the point?! i only knew him for a short while way to short to be asking me for a thousand dollars to pay his child support. that's his responsibility and not mine if we ain't serious. I'm in college and far from rich. i LOANED him $190 which I still haven't seen a dime of. AND he had another gf the whole time