“She broke up with me and kept me for 3 months sleeping in the same bed, texting another dude until I found out.”
She kept me around for 3 months sleeping in the same bed and told me she loved me while texting another dude. I stayed thinking I had a chance to still be with her and treated her amazing during the 3 months.
I broke up with you because you never met my needs in the last few months. I never told you that I was talking to someone after the break up because I didn't want to hurt your feelings and I felt stuck sleeping next to you. I told you I love you but it's not the same love that it was before. You started to do things for me after I broke up with you. Before that, you were always tired and out of it whenever you got home from work. I told you that I wanted no contact for a few days and I lied about where I was going so I wouldn't hurt your feelings because I wanted to sleep with someone else. All I wanted was to come back home from my no contact weekend and to not have to worry about you.
After breaking up, I wished I knew you were talking to someone immediately then I wouldn't be so hung up on this issue. Every night for 3 months you asked for cuddles and always asked me to do things for you and I always did. I provided as much as I could working 8 hours and driving 2 hours a day to come home and just to see you doom scrolling on your phone and when I ask about your day, you don't even do anything for most of the days, besides sleep until late afternoon. I took care of your dog during the time that you went no contact and that's when I figured out that you sneaked off to sleep with someone else and have been talking to someone else while sleeping next to me every night and asking to be cuddled.
Who's right?
Jury deliberation
- JUROR #3 · 12H AGO
She for the streets bro
- JUROR #7 · 10H AGO
Can't make me side with a man. "Treated her amazing" my foot
- JUROR #9 · 10H AGO
She broke up with you dude. You stayed because you wanted her to what? Go back on her decision? That’s on you.
- JUROR #16 · 8H AGO
Defendant owes plaintiff nothing. Plaintiff needs to do some self reflecting and ask themselves why the Defendant felt unsafe to be honest with him. Defendant needs to take her dog and cut all ties. From experience, situations like this never end up amicable. Be safe, Defendant.
- JUROR #22 · 8H AGO
Protect your heart. Plenty of fish in the sea
- JUROR #23 · 8H AGO
If you broke up with someone, why still sleep on the same bed? That's sending mixed messages. At least someone move to the couch or another room if the other person couldn't move out right away. It's just weird to be broken up, sleeping side by side, and cuddling, while you talk to other men. Throw the whole thing out and just go your separate ways. No winners here. But she was wrong for getting cuddles and making him think it wasn't a true break up.
- JUROR #34 · 7H AGO
Respectfully, she's for the streets. As for prior jurors asking why the defendant would feel "unsafe" to communicate openly with the plaintiff--many people feel unsafe to tell their waiter they get the wrong food... it doesn't imply any sort of abuse. She's leading you on. Move on
- JUROR #57 · 4H AGO
Yeah brother, this one should have been like a brick to the face obvious, that’s on you.
- JUROR #58 · 4H AGO
This is a difficult one. Morally, the defendant is guilty. However, more info is needed. Did the defendant have no where else to go, to live? The plaintiff should have demanded separate sleeping and separation. The heart is always hopeful. I’m going to rule for the Plaintiff, as once the defendant broke up with him, she should have vamoosed.
- JUROR #67 · 27M AGO
You just can’t be in a relationship and still be looking around. The ex should’ve just been honest and kicked rocks.. The plaintiff should hold his head high and keep on keeping on. As for the ex… exes are exes for a reason and this one def belongs in the streets! She wasn’t yours bro, you were just next in line…